My husband died a year and a half ago and my family has suggested that I move from this large apartment. I am not doing that because I love walking through every room to reminisce on the mementos of our extensive travels and purchases. When sad, I just think how grateful I am for those trips. With my children, nine grandchildren and one great-grand son, at 88 I certainly have a lot to be grateful for.
Keep up your good work with Elder Chicks because so many people depend on you.
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Thanks so much for writing, Shirley. And for the example of focusing on good memories. Reaching 88 always includes having faced great challenges along the way; your outlook is inspiring.
So glad you are listening to yourself and not all the good intentioned suggestions to change your life.