Battling extreme loneliness in a community of couples or extremely tight friends who have no room to add new ones. I leave the community to go places I like to find companionship with strangers. I ask questions, comment when I see something interesting. The Pandemic makes things a bit strange since many activities have shut down. Walking helps to clear the fog.
Battling Loneliness by Sunie Levin
December 2, 2020 by ElderChicks
Good plan. Taking responsibility for your own happiness. I applaud you! It’s never easy but oh so satisfying.
Sunie, This is such an unfortunate circumstance that is shared by many people. One would hope that older people especially would realize the importance of reaching out to people new to their buildings or communities. Meanwhile, I have already heard from a frequent writer on ElderChicks who would love to be in touch with you if you would like to give me permission to facilitate the connection. If so, please email me separately at drthelma@aol.com and I will connect you and Carol via email. I wish you happier days ahead! Love, Thelma
I understand completely. It isn’t easy to keep moving forward.
Never commented but love that post. I also, talk to complete strangers, comment, start conversations, to ease loneliness. So glad I’m not the only one. Makes me feel normal!
Yes. Striking out on one’s own is a very good way to connect up. I wonder if anybody has hints on conversation starters. Weather is always good although not always interesting. Starting to talk about oneself sometimes works. Anything else?
Sally: Try what’s interesting to read, watch, or stream these days. Just avoid politics.