For a number of years I took care of my husband of 42+ years, worked a full time job and managed our home, our dog and a second home. After my husband passed away in January 2017, I continued to work which helped me get through the grief of losing him sooner than expected. When I retired in December 2017, it felt weird without the structure of tasks in my life and I just floundered. My brother came to live with me in July 2018 which has helped a great deal. He pushes me to meet up with my friends (3 of 4 of them are still working). I now meet one of the girls every month for lunch and the whole group gets together to see a movie when one is showing that looks good. My other brother calls frequently to check up on everything and makes sure that we keep laughing. I pray every day to thank God for the gift of a great family and wonderful friends.
Keeping Busy by Dorene
January 15, 2020 by ElderChicks
Dorene, It sounds as though you are indeed blessed to have close friends, and, especially, wonderful brothers. And a sense of humor. All powerful ingredients in the formula for rising to the challenges and opportunities of aging well. Thanks so much for writing!
I just love brothers, don’t you? Thanks for your thoughts.
Mary