There is so much we can’t control in the world at large, but there are so many little things we can change for the better in our personal interactions:
- Being gracious when we can with someone with whom we might expect to be confrontational…
- Expecting the best from someone; who knows, this attitudinal shift sometimes produces positive surprises
- Seize all opportunities to pay a sincere compliment, whenever you can…
- Pass along something good you can recommend to someone who just might be interested; a good book for example
- Remembering to smile more often… speak to a stranger for no particular reason…express appreciation for the small good things that come your way…
- Try optimism on dicey situations; be prepared to be pleasantly surprised…
- Catch up on a poor night’s sleep by taking it easy the next day…
- Smile at a cute child in the supermarket…
You get the idea: lighten up!
Very well said. I like this. Thanks
Thanks, Carol. I needed that today! I’ll start with the last suggestion. We live next door to a pre-school whose children are all beautiful. I especially love seeing as many dads as moms bringing their kids these days.
This is so insightful and beautiful. I will utilize this in my daily practice. Thank you!
So smart. Yes, little shifts in attitude and perception can lift our spirits and those around us. The biggest game changer to bring about more joy in life is gratitude.
Life brings about struggles and disappointments and reminding ourselves of all the small and big things that we are grateful for makes for a more satisfying life!