ElderChicks

I enjoyed reading all of the wonderful tributes to moms. I have a mother who is 88 and going strong. I love her dearly and care for her with whatever support she needs. However my mom was not there for me during the most important years when a daughter needs her mother most — ages nine through fifteen.

I was raised at that time by my grandmothers. They tried their best to nurture and guide me but the generational differences between a 13 year old and grandparents in their 60’s caused a giant disconnect. At that time I lived with my dad and three brothers, I was a bit of a tomboy and gravitated to more masculine interests. Like listening to a transistor radio and playing sports. Those two things have helped my find my way through life.

I became one of the first women on the radio in Detroit, MI, back in the 70’s. It was in the 90’s that I became the first woman to announce the Academy Awards. And in June I will be announcing the Tony Awards for my eleventh straight year. Sometimes it takes a lifetime to work out our mother daughter issues. I wish I could tell my grandmothers, who are long gone, that I love them and appreciate all they tried to do for me back then. Luckily I get to tell my mom thank you for all of the other years that she was there for me. And today I get to revel in her praise for how I managed, under less than perfect circumstances to turn out so balanced, blessed and successful not only as a woman but also as the mother of my own teenage daughter. So before I bring this slice of my life reflection to a close, I must say thanks to the one woman who has had the biggest impact on my life is none other than the mother of Andy & Tory –The one and only Thelma Reese. You have been my friend and mentor for almost twenty years and I love you dearly!!!